1. If they don’t want to be with you, they’re not the right one for you. You don’t want to spend too much time wondering whether the person who got away was the right one for you — because the right person for you wouldn’t leave you on read. They wouldn’t disappear without an explanation. They wouldn’t leave you wondering whether you’ve done something wrong. This person who ghosted you must not be right for you, so don’t stress too much about their absence. The right person will stay.
2. Finding love isn’t easy. Movies might make it look easy. The couples who have been together since high school or college might make it look easy. But for most people, finding love isn’t something that happens quickly. It can take decades to meet your perfect match. Don’t compare yourself to the people around you who just so happened to find love faster. They’re not superior to you. They’re simply on a different journey than you.